Marriage
As girls could see this picture, they'd be all gaga about marrying the guy they love. Proposal it is. Haha! Are you thinking of something? heck, no! Stop thinking about it. I'm not engaged yet, and I think I will never be. Marrying someone is not my thing. Marriage, duh? Infidelity always comes along marriage! Really not my thing...
It's just that I don't like it. I just really can't see myself wearing a long white gown with my boyfriend being the groom. But don't get me wrong. I love my boyfriend. It's just that I have this thinking that marriages don't last. Don't you guys agree? I mean, your partner right now may be the best among the rest partner, but that doesn't mean that he/she could be the best spouse. My friends would tell me that maybe I just couldn't find the attitude, behavior and the like in my boyfriend. The qualities of a husband I'm looking for to be exact. But really? I don't think so. He's good. Really! It's just that I really don't have this thinking of getting married (and maybe be stuck! Joke).
But there's a big BUT! If I were to be married, i prefer this live-in thing first before anything else. Being in a relationship not being in black and white and being in a relationship with all of these legal stuff don't differ from each other. Is there a difference? Na ah! See? And, if you're living in with your partner without getting married yet, then you'll see the if he's the one. I mean, just by taking care of the bills at home, how to take care of the house and the like. If he's really worth it for you to be stuck with your partner for the rest of your life. Do you get me guys?
One more thing. Boys, men, please don't be mad but, really! You are so not contented with girls. Yes, you might be in a relationship but I swear, you keep on looking and searching for traits that your girlfriend hasn't. Get what I mean? Yes, girls aren't perfect. But, duh! So are you! Ha ha! Anyway, as I've said earlier, infidelity comes along marriage, as always. Married men, yes, might still be going home to their wives but do they know who's with them during the day? Yeah, a paranoia thingy, but I know! It's your nature. You can't help it! Like if you see a sexy long haired girl, wearing super mini skirt and a sexy top girl, I know you guys will go gaga all over that girl. Agree? For sure? Wait, I think I'm beginning to go bias. This is not about boys, ha ha! Let's go back!
That's it. I think I have already explained my side on why I don't want to get married. And as I end this article, I just want to share a conversation with you guys with one of my colleagues.
Ate Ann: Ba't ba kasi ayaw mong magpakasal?
Me: Basta! Hindi mo rin naman maiintindihan.
Ate Ann: Anong gusto mo pala?
Me: Cge, Ganto na lang. Makikipaglive-in muna ko bago ko magpapakasal.
Ate Ann: Bakit naman?
Me: Syempre, iba naman kasi ung naghahandle kayo ng bills sa bahay. Di ba? Usapang pera na yan mahirap na yan.
Ate Ann: Ewan ko sau.
Me: Ahh, alam ko na! Pag naipasa na ung divorce dito sa Pilipinas, sige, papakasal nako.
Ate Ann: E, mahal un!
Me: Edi right after namen magpakasal magiipon na kami agad para kung gusto na namin maghiwalay, edi go!
Ate Ann: Baliw ka talaga. E, pagpapakasal pa lang mahal na!
Me: Exactly.
And we didn't stop arguing! :))
